SPOILER alert: I donโt normally bother with spoiler warnings, but this movie is fresh in the world, unlike most of the things I write about, so be aware that Iโm writing as if the reader has already seen the film and knows all the turns the plot takes.
Great stories carry universal themes within the vessel of a specific, closely defined context. One thing such stories do is allow you to connect with one aspect of whatโs happening while learning about other aspects youโre less familiar with.
There can be multiple themes in one story, and Turning Red isnโt โaboutโ only one thing. Itโs about:
โข allowing yourself to feel and to express your own emotions, when other people donโt want you to
โข friendship as the nest of comfort encasing you so you are safe to experience difficult feelings
โข inter-generational trauma
โข puberty
โข the cost of hiding things from your children that they are going to have to deal with, whether those are biological realities or family history or something else
โข guilt and shame, and the dangers of burying them
โข the painful process of separating from your parents as you grow older
โข children struggling to protect the emotional well-being of their parents
โข going overboard and taking things too far while trying to protect someone you love
โข family coming together, or staying together, despite conflicts
โข mother-daughter dynamics specific to Chinese culture and how those dynamics interact with a Western cultural environment
โข people turning into adorable fluffy talking animals
As a viewer you probably wonโt relate to every one of those things, in the sense of having gone through them yourself, but thatโs okay. Most people will recognize several of those concerns from their own lives or the lives of those they care about, although the experiences wonโt match precisely.
The closer you are to the context portrayed in the filmโbeing a 13-year-old-girl of Cantonese-speaking Chinese heritage growing up in a temple in Toronto in 2002โthe more you might find in the film that resonates with your life, but that doesnโt mean everyone else is left out. You can still connect to Meilin and her emotions despite differences in biographical data, just like you can read and appreciate Oliver Twist without ever having been an orphaned English boy with possible family secrets growing up in the slums of Victorian-era London under the malevolent eye of a master pickpocket.
Why โTurning Redโ? Why a red panda?
As the film points out, in Chinese culture red means good luck. In Western culture, red often means anger. (It can also mean blushing.) In plenty of cultures red suggests blood, and in this movie itโs impossible to ignore the connection to menstrual blood. (Notice Meilinโs mother using the euphemism โred peony.โ)
Oh, rightโwe also use red to symbolize sexual desire.
The red panda isnโt simply a metaphor for menstruation or puberty. Or simply a metaphor for uncontrolled anger (and other feelings). Itโs some of both, and itโs also lucky, providing the means for Meilin to get free of emotional quicksand, and we are reminded more than once that the ability to change into a red panda was supposed to be a blessing, not a curse.
(But there again we run into a menstruation euphemism, this time Western, referring to it as โthe curseโ when it doesnโt have to be viewed as one.)
A lot of filmmakers wouldโve made the main character a loner or given her just a single friend. Not only is Meilin part of a crew, but her friends are the very reason she can manage her inner panda so well.
One suspects her mother did not have close friends when this was happening to her.
So far Iโve only seen Turning Red once, and I donโt remember how specific the film is about when Meilinโs mother first turned panda, or even if she only changed once (when the incident occurred).
But:
– When we see her in the bamboo forest she looks older than Meilin.
– Her parents are surprised this happened to Meilin this young, so much so that her motherโs first response is โperiodโ and not โpanda.โ (If we accept this as more than just a movie trick to make the eventual reveal more surprising.)
– We know that when she went feral she was already seriously dating her future husband.
It may be that her inner panda is SO much bigger and SO much more destructive than Meilinโs because she kept it in too long, steadfastly suppressing her feelings because she refused to push back against her motherโs grip. (Until.)
Meilin, though, is younger when she first allows herself to have a conflict with her mother, and therefore her panda emerges earlier in her life.
Letโs not forget that the red panda was given to women of this family to act as a defense. Its very existence is explicitly defined as a way to protect the family from harm, and that includes protecting yourself.
Itโs sad that Meilinโs grandmother and aunties feel the need to seal their panda sides away again, but itโs not a mixed message. These women have spent the vast majority of their lives with those red panda spirits locked away, and they simply lack the means to cope with them in day to day living. Just โlearning a valuable lessonโ isnโt enough to address that.
That is not to say itโs too late for the grandmother and aunties, only that if they want to integrate their inner pandas itโs going to be a gradual process and theyโll need slow, steady adjustments to reach a point where they can handle it. Not merely โMeilin showed us the way so now itโs easy!โ I deeply respect the filmmakersโ choice to stick with the reality of peopleโs capacity to change rather than taking the happier ending.
It is essential to Turning Red that Meilin had her friends before she had a secret. Not because those girls wouldnโt have been able to move beyond the weirdness and get to know her, but because she would not have been able to give herself to them while trying to hold that secret inside.
Thereโs a moment in the film that wouldโve been the emotional climax or major turning point in many other movies: Meilin goes to the party in the cardboard panda suit, and the crowd doesnโt like her. She has to turn into the real fluffy panda before the other kids care. Obviously this will spark Meilinโs moment of realization: โThey donโt want me, none of this popularity is about who I am, itโs all about the panda, itโs fake and shallow and I canโt believe I thought they liked me!โ Right?
Nope. In Turning Red this isnโt even a ripple on the water. There are bigger fish to catch, thematically; and popularity and acceptance by the larger group has never been Meilinโs goal. Think about that: a movie about a thirteen-year-old that gives her sudden access to broad popularity for the first time, and while sheโs certainly enjoying it, it isnโt what matters to her.
And when, in Miriamโs words, she throws her friends under the bus, itโs not because she forgot them while chasing social glories (teen story plot #302); she does it because sheโs afraid of/doesnโt want to disappoint her mother. This is a critical distinction in the direction and focus of Turning Red.
On the subject of whether Turning Red is a โrealisticโ portrayal of thirteen-year-olds, I have two observations.
1. In real life, Meilinโs drawings of Daisy Mart Devon would probably have been made over two or three days, not all in one steamy evening. But this is a movie and they have less than two hours to tell the whole story, so theyโve condensed things a little.
2. When Meilin and Tyler see each other again at the concert, the first time since she attacked him, I donโt understand why he has no particular reaction. Whatever apology her mother wouldโve made her recite at the end of the party would not be enough. We did avoid the lying macho bravado of โWhat? I wasnโt really scared!โ and I would thank the filmmakers for that if they had given us something else instead. But I saw nothing, not even a glare from him. Tyler gets pulled into the group, Meilin reappears, and heโs happy and easy-going. That part doesnโt feel quite right. (Maybe I overlooked something Iโll notice the next time I watch it?)
The one criticism of the movie Iโve seen that has any standing is that โit constantly uses Black culture but has no Black main characters.โ The historical reality is that back in 2002 and before, white boy bands were shamelessly appropriating dance moves, hand gestures, clothing styles, speech patterns, and slang that came from Black communities. (To what degree Latinx communities contributed I donโt know enough to say.) Turning Red reflects that reality, and it would be unfair to blame the film for the actual cultural theft. It also seems pretty true to life that the teenage characters would not be aware of this as being appropriation: to them itโs โboy band cultureโ and they havenโt reflected on it more deeply that that, because most non-Black kids at the time probably didnโt.
Still, โthatโs how it wasโ is not enough to wash away all of a movieโs responsibility on a subject. When youโre creating a fictional story, you donโt have to faithfully reproduce every single aspect of the time period youโre looking at. After all, the filmmakers proudly stepped forward to offer us a boy band 8000% more diverse and inclusive than the ones that actually existed. Indeed one of the band members, the one our protagonist is most obsessed with, who therefore gets the most screen time, is Black. Even if you think thatโs not enough, it should not be overlooked.
Should the film have done more to balance its use of appropriated Black cultural elements? Possibly. How much responsibility does it bear for addressing a situation it reflects but did not create? Iโm not sure. Some.
Iโm not clear on what the answer should be, but I do see thereโs a valid question here.
This is one of my favorite Pixar films. And Iโve never even been to Toronto.